Monday, July 06, 2009
I had been thinking about the subject of death lately. Might be linked to the recent demise of Micheal Jackson. Death usually occur in a sudden way. It will be nice if there were some ways to predict it. It will be nice to say goodbye to my loved ones before leaving them forever.
For example, would MJ still be rehearsing hard for his come back shows if he were to know that he was going to pass away on that fateful Tues night? What will you be doing if you know that you are going to leave this world soon?
Baby was playing Sims 3 at my home the other day. For the unknown, Sims 3 is a PC based game where you get to be a character and live a virtual life till you die. One thing that strike me was the sadness feel by her other half when he was the one left behind by the woman he loved the most.
All of a sudden, I felt frighten. What if the same was to happen to me? Would I have live the last moments with Baby differently?
That's why I am constantly reminding myself to be nice to my friends and loved ones. Life is real fragile. One can never predict when is the goodbye you just spoken be the last one heard by the other party.
I tried not to bear grudges now. In some way, age had mellow me. I am not as hot headed as before. I tried to appreciate all the little things in life. Things like a morning message from the lady of my life, a glass of water from mum, a message asking for a game of Dota from my friends, a simple dinner with my friends etc.
If I were to move on suddenly, I hope that it will be a celebration of my life. I do hope that I had made a difference in the lives of my friends. Hopefully, the difference is in a positive manner. If it is not to be, do forgive me. It is not easy to have played a part in someone's life when there are billions of people out there in this world.
Tears will definitely be shed. We are human after all. Death is a way frighten and engross me at the same time. Do we really go to heaven and join our loved ones or we have to go through the cycle of life again? I don't think we can ever get an answer.
Time for my bed. Just want to let all those who read this that I want to say a big thank you for being part of my life. Be it used to or an active role now. I give thanks for the blessing that I had gotten from all of you. Especially for Baby and my beloved Mum. For I will be nothing without her.
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10:55 PM
10:55 PM
Sunday, July 05, 2009
If you are living in planet Earth, I am quite sure that you would had read news that Micheal Jackson had passed on due to cardiac arrest. I was in shock on that morning when I read about the news on Channel News Asia. Sadness seep in after the initial shock as I had lost someone whom I idolized greatly when I was a child.
I remembering standing in awe in front of electronic stores selling television sets that were showing his MTV. Hits like Smooth Criminal and Thriller were two Mtvs that left an indelible mar on my childhood. I tried dancing like him but failed ultimately as my body is simply not make for dancing.
God had given him a talent to create great music that can break down all barriers. Be it race, language or religion. You just can't help but to groove along with his songs or stand still there watching his Mtvs. It is just sad that with the talent came along the unwanted baggage of having a lonely life.
People don't normally realize what greatness is until it had left us. I don't think there will ever be another King of Pop. I am just glad that people of my generation had the great privilege of seeing him when he was in his prime. Rest in peace. Sad I might be but all party must come to an end. I am just glad that you had left a great legacy of music to all of us.
I'm Starting With The Man In
The Mirror
I'm Asking Him To Change
His Ways
And No Message Could Have
Been Any Clearer
If You Wanna Make The World
A Better Place
Take A Look At Yourself, And
Then Make A Change
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10:55 PM
10:55 PM
Thursday, April 30, 2009
A song for a good friend of mine. I think suit you to a T. I hope you find the Ms Right soon. :)
多情种
你说的话 总是 言不由衷
我不想骗你 可是 我真的都懂
我们是否心有 灵犀一点通
你的笑容是那么真实如梦
能否带我走出人生的迷宫
幸福的爱情 人说 千载难逢
美丽的恋爱 永远朦朦胧胧
迷人的眼神 和你的一举一动
让我相信 再荒谬的恋情
也有一片蔚蓝的天空
莫笑我 生来就是一个多情种
努力努力让的的爱情故事 与众不同
莫笑我 生我就是一倨多情种
努力不让我的情网落空
想念着你 谁能说爱人的心
不是冷漠世界里 最温柔的风
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11:22 PM
11:22 PM
Sunday, April 26, 2009
I had finally began my study leave. Ironical for someone like me to have been looking forward towards it when my days in Poly were infamous for the high rate of absence from my class. People do grow old and have a shift in their mentality. I believe that it is for the better though at times minds get corrupted by the temptation of money and power. Things that are the barometer of happiness for many living on this lovely planet.
My barometer of happiness had been and always will be in giving help and joy to people around me. The ironic part of these is that money plays a part in it. A good example will be the countless stream of elderly people peddling tissue papers or collecting cans. We can either buy their wares from them or send them to an elderly home but all these required something called money.
Is money the root of all evils or the antidote for all evils? I am still figuring this out as I ages but I do hope that my life will not be just about chasing the next dollar or the next higher position in the corporate world. Part of me think that by learning more about economics and finance I might be able to contribute to a better world. Another part of me is saying that the honest truth of me learning this is simply that Banking is the sector that gives the highest pay cheque.
Like it or not but those idiots at Wall Street that had plunged the world into one of the deepest recession in the world are still going to get a much higher pay than most of the average S'poreans. Ain't Economists people who understand the law of economics and help the world enjoy stable growth? Or had they been corrupted by the promise of easy cash which they can gain with their knowledge?
I think I think too much at times. The top priority now is to sort my mind out and be ready for the exams. For people who long for a satisfactory degree in any business modules, look no further than UOL. You will be in for the ride of your life. This is something that I can be DAMN sure of. Ha.
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11:52 PM
11:52 PM
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Punches and blows.
Hurt it might cause to the flesh
Pain I will feel
But it is no way comparable
To harsh words that is thrown at you
By thou you love and treasure
Bleed in the heart I feel
Sight of it I can't see
Deep is the cut
Pain is the utmost
Tears had been shed
Scars I will be left with
Ay me! for aught that I could ever read,
Could ever hear by tale or history,
The course of true love never did run smooth;
But either it was different in blood—
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11:43 PM
11:43 PM
Sunday, August 03, 2008
Just back from watching Money Not Enough. With a cup of cappuccino still fresh in my mind, it's a toss between blogging or doing D Square Y Over D X Square. The choice should be quite clear at 3.36 a.m.
Found the movie a bit depressing especially towards the end when the inevitable happen. I think the movie simply drum in the fact that one should plan well when they are of able body and mind. I can't stress the importance of health insurance and investing more. For our parents or grandparents who did not have the benefit of education and a strewn of instruments for them to build up their retirement fund, it's understandable that they don't have enough to retire even when they are reaching 65.
This is a fact that is bugging me. While the workfare bonus is a good incentive to encourage able S'poreans to work and earn their own living, I still feel that more leeway should be given to Senior Citizens who have contribute a huge part to the bountiful reserves that Singapore is currently holding on to. It sadden my heart whenever I see elderly who have to throw away their dignity trying to peddle packets of tissues. Ironically when they are staying in one of the wealthiest countries in the world.
The Singapore Dream seems to constitute of a couple living in their dream landed property, with their own dream car, having loads of cash in their bank, having their own maid, kids in tow and credit cards in hand. Notice how all the above need money. Is living in Singapore basically a race against time to earn as much as possible while forsaking the slight moments in life which may give us more enjoyment than all of the above? It will be sad for our society on the whole if success is only measured by the amount of money one is bringing in at the end of the year.
Another thing that come to my mind now is relationship. Relationship as in Boy and Girl relationship. See in an ideal world, boy meet girl. Boy fall in love with girl. Girl accept boy. They start a family and lived happily ever after.
Problem is what if the boy don't have the above example as a reference for him to follow. What if he had seen with his own eyes the fallout of the marriage between his own parents. At an age when stigma is attached to single parent family. Boy will tend to be afraid of relationship. When all he can see down the road is the huge possibility of him living out the life of his parents all over again. Though he hope and pray hard for the best, it's simply a scar on his heart that he can't get rid of easily.
To the extend that he will not even dare trying to hold it in his own hands. For fear that he will only end up losing it. Yes. The fear is huge enough to deter him from even wanting to hold it. Though deep in his heart, he know it is time to look for one who he can talk to till his last breath. One that he can hold on to in times of need, offer a shoulder to when he is needed and simply an assurance to and from the one he loved the most. Even when he think that he might have found the one, all of the above is making him think otherwise.
This is in no way indicating that I have found the one yet. Just a summarize of how I feel towards relationship on a whole.
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3:33 AM
3:33 AM
Sunday, July 27, 2008
I had been studying unusually hard recently. Weekends are dedicated to self study unless I got tasks on hand that I got to deal with. Currently taking Statistic 1 and Maths 1 with Maths 1 being a major killer for me. For someone who had never ever studies A Maths back in Secondary School and miraculously got a B3 for E Maths in O Levels. Maths 1 is like bundling A Level Maths and Poly Maths inside 3 short months. Yes. This might sound a bit far fetched but it is the truth.
To be frank, I had never been so hardworking back when I was a full time student. NEVER EVER. Even when I had 3 Supplementary Papers in one year during my Poly Days. Not sure if time had turn me into someone who is hardworking or one who is simply afraid of screwing up his own studies and dreams. Yes. Those older and higher up in the rank of life have more responsibilities hanging on to them. I am just glad that I had become one of them after a journey of 28 years.
Dreams. I had wrote a few posts on it. The need for someone to have dream and how it is the leading light for people who is shrouded in clouds of gloom and doom. I am beginning to make my first step towards it and to be honest, this painful path made me realize one more thing.
Dreams require lots of determination and discipline before one can reach the promised destination. The travel of a million miles begin with the first single step. To even begin with, one got to take that first single step. It think it is precisely the first single step that is hard to begin with. One can talk till the cow come home and yet unable to achieve anything as all he does is talk. Ah. The beauty of speech.
To me, actions speak louder than words. Always had been. The reason why I am talking about this is the fact that I am seeing friends who are waiting for their dreams to just drop onto their lap from the sky. They can paint beautiful picture of what they want to achieve in life. Their desires and dreams. Problem begin the moment I start to ask them how you plan to achieve it. Most of them will come unstuck.
The older I get, the more I find that planning in life is of utmost importance. Executing the plan after planning for it call for great courage, determination and discipline. Though it had been less than a months since I am a part time student and a full time employee, I am beginning to feel the weariness if it. Working hard during working hours and yet having to be alert after it for your lectures.
There is a saying in Chinese which goes like this. 先苦后甜. One have to go through the hardship in life before being able to enjoy the sweet fruits of one labour. To my friends who are still dreaming, ponder hard. Time flies by in a blink of the eye. I sincerely hope that all of us will be able to achieve our dreams. Nothing can take away good planning and hard work in life.
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11:02 PM
11:02 PM
Saturday, July 19, 2008
Anger - A strong feeling of displeasure and belligerence aroused by a wrong; wrath; ire
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12:52 AM
12:52 AM
Sunday, July 13, 2008
I am 28!!! Yup.. Seems like yesterday that I was still serving my NS, being a brash and naive young boy. Ok. The naivety might still be there but it sure had improved over the long winding years.
Reasons for the lack of posting recently are down to a few. Having to accompany friends during their depression period is one. This is one of the tasks that I like. I am not being sadistic. One good things with true friends are that we might not see them as often as we want but the moment we had a fall, we sure know that they will be there to hold us back up again.
Come to think of it, I think I got to thank them for keeping me occupied. I don't really recall me having that much amount of alcohol since I left my previous job. Yes. I had been a relatively good boy for the past 2 years.
Another reason for not being able to post that often also lies with me having to attend classes twice a week. Yes. I had finally started the long self torturous route to getting a BSC in Economics and Finance from London School of Economics and Political Science. Man. I loved the full term of my degree. Ha. Just ask Padi. I am damn sure she knows what I mean.
I had also been to KL and back recently. Got to admit that though KL was not as fun as I thought that it will be, I got absolutely no complains with my companions. Pictures are up in my facebook account and I will try to post some over here if I am
A) Bored with a lot of free time
B) Frustrated with my Maths Tutorial
C) Combination of the Above
Special thanks go out to Hee, Wee and Padi for leading me back to the hotel when I was knocked out by the stupid LONG ISLAND TEA in KL Zouk. Yes. I get drunk easily by that so guys or gals who are remotely interested in taking advantage of me should know what to get me when you see me in a club. :P Especially to Padi. I know I am kinda on the heavy side and damn noisy when I am drunk. So be glad that you were able to sleep on that night. Ha.
Special thanks also go out to friends who had helped or criticize me in anyway over the past 28 years. Brickbats or roses. They all helped me to grow nonetheless. To be honest, I prefer the criticism more at times as they will only tend to spur me on.
To friends that I had not been seeing as often as we used to. Rest assured that all of you will always be in my mind. Read a post from Chin Hui on friends growing apart as he moves on in life. I think that is inevitable. Friends will come and go during the different phrases in life. I am glad that I was able to leave a footprint on others during a point in their life. I am also glad that they were able to do likewise to me.
The names I got to thank are indefinite. You guys know who you are. As I looked back on my past 28 years of existence on this planet we called earth, I was glad to have the companionship of you. I look forward to many great years ahead with you. My beloved friends.
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You can take a picture of something you see. In the future where will I be?
11:18 PM
11:18 PM
Monday, June 23, 2008
Age will really change a person perception. Lyrics that don't make any sense at all to you when you are young suddenly seems so well written. I think as one ages, one begin to really start understanding the meaning of life.
I used to think that songs written by 李宗盛 was a bit too Chinese for my liking. Now as I begin to start listening back the songs that were written by him, I can't help but be amazed on how well his lyrics are written.
Love had and will always play a huge part in our life. Like it or not. Human beings were never created to be a single entity. Not matter how much you think that you will be better off alone or with a pet, nothing can replace the assurance and joy a human companion can bring to you.
It's like a drug. Giving you a high that others can't give you. As all drugs come, there will be beneficial and malignant drugs. Yet, one can't determine the nature of the drug until you had really tried it.
Friends might just be the best pharmacist for you. For one can never really understand nor know what one really want. To be honest, till now I am always unstuck by this drug. Friends who had taken the beneficial drug make me want to have that feeling. Yet for every beneficial form of drug out there, I can see numerous malignant ones that are ruining the life of my friends.
For friends of mine who are still under the influence of this malignant drug, I hope that you will get over the effects soon. Pain it might be but I am sure you will be better off without it.
爱情究竟是精神鸦片
还是世纪末的无聊消遣
开始总是分分钟都妙不可言
谁都以为热情它永不会减
除了激情褪去后的那一点点倦
也许像谁说过的贪得无厌
活该应了谁说过的不知检点
总之那几年感性赢了理性的那一面
有人问我你究竟是那里好
这麽多年我还忘不了
春风再美也比不上你的笑
没见过你的人不会明了
是鬼迷了心窍也好
是前世的因缘也好
然而这一切已不再重要
如果你能够重回我怀抱
是命运的安排也好
是你存心的捉弄也好
然而这一切也不再重要
我愿意随你到天涯海角
虽然岁月总是匆匆的催人老
虽然情爱总是让人烦恼
虽然未来如何不能知道
现在说再见会不会太早
啊多么痛的领悟你曾是我的全部
只是我回首来时路的每一步都走的好孤独
啊多么痛的领悟你曾是我的全部
只愿你挣脱情的枷锁爱的束缚
任意追逐别再为爱受苦
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9:55 PM
9:55 PM
Thursday, June 19, 2008
Just completed a small job today. The job scope include the upgrading of a Digital Video Recorder (CCTV System) and enabling it to be viewable from the web. What makes this job so special is the owner request to leave the old spoilt Digital Video Recorder as it is. His maid or maybe tenant had known it to be spoilt all this time and his intention is not to let anyone know that it is working well again.
This include installing the new DVR at an isolated location, using tape to mask up the led indicator lights and lastly to soften the noise of the built in fan.
I do not know if I should be glad or sad for him. Glad that he is well off, with a happy family and being able to contribute to the local economy by paying an obscene amount of money to my company for doing this job. At the same time sad that he have to resort to spying others in silence. Unable to trust those living under the same roof as him. Yes. He is well off in material wealth but is this everything?
The sad thing is that this is not the only customer that I had who are like him. Pin hole cameras, DVR which are able to pass off as a normal VCR and other strange requests. The richer they are, the funnier the requests.
I got to admit that I want to be like them sometime soon in the future. Being able to provide my family a life of comfort. But no way do I want to live in fear of people stealing from me or trying to cause harm to me.
Human possessions to me are stuff that come and go easy. If there are things that I want to guard and watch over of, that would be my family and friends. There are possessions that are worth fighting for. Not that one more zero in my bank.
Yes. There will always be fear that your maid who you don't even know well of doing harm to your children. The fear that they will bring strangers to your home when you are not around. But wouldn't telling them in advance of what not to do better than spying? Even if there is a need for surveillance, is there really a need to hide it up and hope to catch someone in action? That's to me just doesn't seem so right. But then again, who am I to judge others? All I wish for is that he is able to sleep well every night. Yes. The same activity that commoners like me had gotten used to.
I may not be rich in material but definitely not poor either in spirit. I got my family and my friends with me all the time. Yes. You who are reading. Be it a follower of my blog or someone who happened to just drop by. Be it a mere acquaintance or a friend who I had not contact in a long while. As long as we had met and influence each other, a friend you are to me. You are my most valuable possession.

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You can take a picture of something you see. In the future where will I be?
10:15 PM
10:15 PM
Sunday, May 25, 2008
A big thank you to Jodie for helping me to style and cut my hair this afternoon. Got to admit that you did quite a good job. I am not so narcissistic so apologizes for the lack of photos showing my new haircut. Jodie, you were GREAT at what you did just now. I am sure you will also be great at Lighting Control System soon. ;)
I had my first feet reflexlogy just now at the saloon. The good thing about this saloon is that it had a small corner for foot reflexlogy as you wait for your friends to finish up on their haircut. Nearly forgot to introduce this place. Not sure of the name but it is just opposite Wala Wala in Holland Village. It's on the 2nd level of the shop house.
Back to the feet reflexlogy. It was my first and it felt great. The most amazing part was that I were being attended by a blind masseur. I got to admit that the fact that he was blind play a part in me opting for the reflexolgy. I wasn't really expecting much and I am quite ashamed that I had thought of this at the end of the session. He, like Jodie is simply great at what he is doing.
It amazes me how a blind masseur is doing his utmost to earn his own keep. Compared him to so many S'poreans out there who are complaining of low salary, tough jobs and unfair treatment at work. It makes me feel ashamed on their behalf. More so on those who are simply living off their parents.
It make me realize that just how lucky a lot of us are out there. Chances are that if you are reading this blog, you are one of the lucky ones. For you have the gift of sight. A gift that enable you to see how beautiful the world is out there. A gift that allow you to live your life with no assistance required. For you are able to see the humps and bumps ahead of you. The same can't be said of the blind masseur who served me just now.
Living one life with dignity and pride comes to mind when I recall him now. Yes. He might be visually handicapped but the far sightliness of his attitude to life inspire me. If I were to have any complains about the cards that life had thrown on me so far, what's my cards to his? A whole lot better for sure.
I am just glad that I had the ability to help out others. I am not trying to sound holy and great here but the joy I get from helping others who had worse cards in life than me is simply indescribable. There is a Chinese saying. 施比受更有福。To be able to help is way better than just receiving help.
That's also the reason why I decided to increase my contribution to The Community Chest of Singapore. I had been on their Share Donor program for years and quite ashamed to say that my contribution is a measly $5 per month. I had decided to increase my contribution and friends who are interested can also sign up for the program here. Simply print out the form, fill it up and mail it out. The postage is free. :)
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1:42 AM
1:42 AM
Thursday, April 24, 2008

Been reading Baby Blues recently. It is a very funny comic on the pains or should I said fun one will encounter when interacting with children.
This make me wonder aloud on the emotions one need to go through as a parent. Is it really as scary as some parts where the child will cry continuously if not being held or fed at a particular timing? Or will it be as blissful as the joy one get when you see that little creature which look like you sleeping in peace on that little bed that you have got for it?
This also make me wonder on how my children would behave or look like if I have some in the future. (I do wish to have children further down the road in life)
I can easily list some of the bad points that I would not want him or her to inherit from me . I will try to keep the list short here.
1) Laziness. The number one thing that I hate about myself and yet my inability to deal with it bother me till no ends.
2) Lack of patience. Patience is a great virtue but sadly it is one thing that I am lacking in.
3) Being a sore Loser. I hate losing and I don't hide my emotions well when defeat of any kind loom down on me. Be it just a simple ball game or PC game but I absolutely hate losing in anything I do.
4) Inability to listen to any advice when it is being given. Due to my impatience, I do not fathom the need to listen to others when I think I can solve the problem myself soon. As what people like to say of me, Ti Qi( pronounce in hokkien ).
5) Stubbornness when used in certain times can be translated to persistence. Too bad for me, my stubbornness is always used in the wrong areas.
I try not to include too much so as to not scare off potential dates who are reading this. Ha. Self humor is a good way to kill time when you are alone in front of the PC. :)
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You can take a picture of something you see. In the future where will I be?
10:19 PM
10:19 PM
Wednesday, April 16, 2008
Well, here I am again. Trying to create a post. There were a lot of things that were floating in my head during the shower. Even more thoughts came rushing to my head as I were walking back to my van to get back my spectacles. Yes. I am that damn blur even at the age of 28.
28. To be honest, this age seems a bit strange to me. I had the same feeling back then when I reach 21. I am not considered an adult back then but neither can someone treat me as a teenager anymore. Now that I am 28, there is no way that I can be consider as young anymore but neither am I at the stage where you can call me mature (nicer word for uncle). I don't know if this is a case of mid life crisis or trying to get a focal point in life but it seems to me that life just kinda zip pass me over the past 28 years.
Just what had I really achieve over the past 28 years? This is one question that I seems to have no answer to. One thing that I heard quite often from my friends are that, Christopher, you are a nice guy. But to rank that as an achievement seems a bit far-fetched.
To be honest, at times I hoped I can be that jerk or bastard that everyone want a piece of. I think from their perspective, nice guys are someone for them to step on for their advancement in life. I think in my line of work (construction, which I got to admit might not really be my cup of tea), being nice will never get you anyway. Those who are far ahead are those who can make strangers feel like they are their long lost siblings and those who need their cooperation begging them for it. Yes. Help is not necessary unless there are something in there for them.
This made me take a step back and think of this. Would I feel differently if I have a family now? As in having a wife and maybe one or two kids in tow. Is having a family considered an achievement? To be having a happy family is likely to be considered an achievement but being the pessimistic me who had witnessed the break down of my own parents marriage when my dad left us make me shiver when I think of marriage. To me, there are so many things that might go and can go wrong.
This might be one of the reasons why I had been single for quite sometime now. Discounting the fact of my last DOOMED infatuation with someone, I had hardly opened up myself to someone of the opposite sex.
The fear of rejection plays a part but the larger fear is that where is this thing going to lead us to? Marriage? Shiver will then start to set upon me. Am I dating the right girl? Will she last the distance if I decided to be serious? To be honest, at times like this I wish I can just take things easily like a lot of my friends do.
Well, wanted to post more but I think the Zzzz monster is calling out to me. Gonna brush my teeth(I don't want to spend $500 for a root canal treatment again!!) before hitting the sack. Nightzz ;)
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12:30 AM
12:30 AM
Monday, January 28, 2008

You are busy. So busy that you have no time to gather your thoughts. No time to just stop for a short while. All by yourself to evaluate where you are going and where you are now. You are tired. So tired that at times you just fall asleep the moment you hit the bed. Only to wake up in a flash to face the same old music again.
It made you ponder. Ponder hard. Why the need for all these? Fortune? Fame? Yes. You might be earning more than before. But then you think. Is this really what you want?
It make you try to take a look at yourself. Try to understand yourself more. Just who is this guy in the mirror? Is it the real me? It is ironic when one can understand others well but never oneself.
I for one is trying to find out more about myself. Trying to understand more about this guy I see in the mirror. Trying to know what he really want and how he is feeling now.
From one of my favourite movies, Lost in Translation
Charlotte: I just don't know what I'm supposed to be.
Bob: You'll figure that out. The more you know who you are, and what you want, the less you let things upset you.

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You can take a picture of something you see. In the future where will I be?
10:01 PM
10:01 PM
Wednesday, January 09, 2008
Is it just the weather or is it the sadness that come after all the festivities had went pass us just like a glance of the eye?
I am not sure what is bothering you. All I want to say is, though the journey of life is long and unwinding, it is never going to be lonely as you describe it to be.
There might be times that you feel that you are all alone. Times like these are hard to bear. The only way to go around it is to surround yourself with love. Love from your friends which I am sure that they will not be stingy of. No one should be. For love is the best medication against all forms of sadness there might be out there in this cold harsh world.
Come as you are in front of people you love and who love you in return. No need to build a false wall in front. No need to put on a mask which you want people to see. I, for one want to see the real you. Be it happy, sad or disappointed. I want to be there as a helping hand. As a life buoy if need be.
Take a rest if you must. For the rest will only enable you to walk a further distance before your next pit stop. Hopefully, I will be there at the next pit stop with you.
致公主:
其实并不难
是你太悲观
隔著一道墙
不跟谁分享
您的扑人
:)
Labels: Life
You can take a picture of something you see. In the future where will I be?
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