I am officially a God Father to a cute and adorable young boy by the name of Jayden Yeo as of 24th of July. He could have been a Cancerian like his God Father had he chose to come out a day earlier. Anyway, being a Leo is fine. As least he won't be as emotional and quiet like his God Father. I should post his picture once I figure out how to do it. Lazy to think now. Anyway, his blog is on my links now. Go visit it. Simply the cutest young boy I had seen in a while.

I felt happy for Stanley. I am really not sure how to explain it but I had known this guy since we were wearing shorts back in Bendemeer Secondary School in 1992. To see him grown from a young and ignorant boy to a husband and now a Father to a new life really make me feel proud and happy for him. I think this is what we called Friendship. Seeing him happy is simply joy beyond words for me. Congrats on being a father. I am sure that Jayden will grow up to be a Great man. For he have a Great father and a slightly lousier God Father leading him in this journey we call Life.

To be honest, seeing Jayden kinda make me imagine what it will be like if I was to be a father. I think I would be a nervy father. For one of my greatest fear is the wailing of a child. I will simply go weak on my knees. I am quite sure that I will spoilt him too. Seems like one of the criteria my future wife must have is being able to be tough on kids. Just like my mum ba. She is a firm believer in "Spare the rod and spoilt the child" Anyway, I think too much. I don't even have someone to go on a date with. Like how my friends are always teasing me on. Ha.

This week passed like a blink of the eye. Was out of office most of the time. Finally closed one deal which was a referral. So in honesty, it is really not considered a sales. Must buck up to close more man. If nothing goes wrong, I should be able to get one more from the same source. God bless. I really need more sales to come in.


Angelic Music signalled his arrival
With angels surrounding him
A Golden halo above his head
His name is Jayden
Bringing joy to his parents

Blessed he will be
For he will have his parents
And a loving God Father
To guide and prepare him
For the road ahead of him

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Damien Duff is to sign for Newcastle instead of Tottenham Hotspur. This news alone is enough to spoil my weekend. No offence to Kenneth but why would he choose a team which is not even good enough to qualify for Europe directly over a team which is going to challenge for the top 4 this season? I had absolutely no idea. The only consolation I have is that at least he is at my 2nd favourite team. But how I wish he had signed for Spurs instead. He will be a worthy successor to David Ginola. My favourite Spurs player of all time.

Fri was spent on a lousy buffet dinner. The company was great with Yupei, her bf and Avelyn but the food was not. The oyster wasn't that fresh and there wasn't a great variety of food choices. Don't think I will go back there again. Anyway, the restuarant I am talking about is Sakura International Buffet at Orchard.

I slept the whole Sat noon away (as usual due to working in the morning) before meeting Muquan and gang for some drinks(which went overboard). The occasion was to celebrate his birthday and boy did he made me drink. Not sure how I ended up home. All I can recall was the vomitting in the wee hours of the day. I am still amaze that I could make my own way home. Just glad that I didn't make a nuisance of myself by calling my friends up. No more beer for me. (At least for a week ;) )

Just came back from a meal with Alson and Hongsheng. We had prata at Jalan Kayu (Which is way overrated). It was a typical men session which we chatted about anything under the moon. Been quite sometime since the 3 of us had a talk cock session anyway. Went to the Da Boh Gong temple at Loyang with Vincent after that. I hope that the prayers I had made there will come true. The results had been mixed so far. Some of my prayers were answered, some were not. Well, you simply can't have the whole pie ba. In life, you gain some and you lose some.

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Just heard this song from Yes 933. Classic song which I used to love. Now then I realised that from 3 onwards, Yes 933 play classic songs. Loved it.. :)




心太软

你总是心太软心太软
独自一个人流泪到天亮
你无怨无悔的爱着那个人
我知道你根本没那么坚强

你总是心太软心太软
把所有问题都自己扛
相爱总是简单相处太难
不是你的就别再勉强

夜深了你还不想睡
你还在想着他吗
你这样痴情到底累不累
明知他不会回来安慰

只不过想好好爱一个人
可惜他无法给你满分
多余的牺牲他不懂心疼
你应该不会只想做个好人

喔,算了吧
就这样忘了吧该放就放
再想也没有用
傻傻等待他也不会回来
你总该为自己想想未来

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Be careful of the coffeeshop beside Ubi Driving Centre. Esp that stupid Fish Soup Stall. Having diarrhoea because of the food there. I suspect. Darn...



A show worth watching. Hope that I can spare the time and also someone to watch it with me.. :)

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To all my friends who were there at the gathering,

Thanks. I have a good time playing Risk, Taboo and Zenga with you guys. Also been sometime since I met Guowei and Xiao P. It was a great way to destress after three days of stressful work. I look forward to our cycling trip to Ubin on next Sun. And boy do I need a holiday soon. If I can afford the time and money to have it.

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Brief update.

Dinner at Glutton Square beside Esplanade. Food sucks but the band playing there is quite good. Never knew that Esplanade got live performances on Fri night. Conclusion: It's time to get a life..

Drank on Fri night. It was fun but the bad thing was the rotation of the song. It was damn $@%#& slow. I only sang half a song. Sianzzz

Work on Sat. Working on Sat after a night out on Fri is a toture. Not to mention that I got tons of work to clear. Hope to be able to finish everything up by tomorrow. Which means, OT tomorrow. Low..

Mahjong on Sat. After sleeping till 8 plus(from 3.30 pm on onwards. Yes. Call me a PIG!!), mahjong was a welcome relief. The talking cock session at Simpang Bedok with Padi and Vincent was fun. Nice way to chill out. I like. :)

Being woke up by Rixin at 10 a.m on a cosy Sun. Sad, sianz and a bit piss. I slept at close to 6 am(slept too much in the day and 2 cups of teh tarik is not going to help me in my bid to sleep). Watched a few episode of the drama, 老婆大人 which is very nice.

Read the Sunday paper and work. Reading was fun. Working was not.

Changed my skin and watched The Mummy Returns. Changing was a chore but worth it as it is nice. I LIKE!! The Mummy Returns was quite ok. First time watching it as I missed it when it was out on theatres and DVD.

Preparing to SLEEP Zzzz. Hope that I can sleep soon. Cause it will be back to the familar routine of work, work and work again from tomorrow.

歌神的演绎

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First, a birthday greeting for myself...



Yes, I am offically a 26 years old adult as you are reading this. Time really flies. Seems like yesterday that I started this blog but it had actually been 2 years ago. Back when I was a young punk working at Prudential. Thinking that my dreams will be achieved without any hard work. Sad to say that I might still be having this mindset in my life.

Stanley said that I don't work hard enough. A lot of my friends ridicule me for wasting the natural talents that I have by always taking the easy way out. I.E; not working hard and trying to slack my way through life. See, life is a cruel game. It takes no prisoners or slackers. Slackers like me. I think it is time to have a new mindset on life for me. I had been telling myself time and time about this. It is time to work hard and be serious about life. Stop dwelling about things that you don't have control over.

Happiness is in one hand. Only you yourself have the right to be happy or sad. Well, things are easier said than done. Sometimes, happiness is just like clapping. You need two to make it happen. Using a square peg to plug a round hole simply don't work at times. I am trying hard to adjust myself to this new form of life I am adopting for myself. Painful it might be but I am sure I will get used to it soon and come out better for it.

Meanwhile, it is time to set some resolutions for myself. Tried setting some this time last year and sad to say, literally none of it happen for me. See, blogging is a good thing. It kinda remind you of what had gone past in a year and how far you are still away from your dreams. Mine is literally out of reach now. Unless I buck up my attitude in life.

I got to start to work hard from now on. I must stop my mind from wandering. Day dreamimg about things that is not happening and might not ever happen in my life. Concentrate on things that I have control over of. My work, career and friends.

End of the day, I just want to be happy. Back when I was young, I would want a lot of fancy gifts for my birthday but as I aged, I realize that happiness is the one and only gift I am looking for. Thus, apologizes to my friends for my cold hearted response to your offers of celebrating my birthday for me. Cause I see no reason in celebrating it. Not when I am aging, further and further away from my dreams and simply not happy with my life. Just how to celebrate something when you are not happy with the state that it is in. Maybe someone could guide me on this.

Lastly, I would like to thank Stanley and my colleagues for the wonderful treat at No Signboard Seafood just now. Simply love the crabs over there and also the fact that someone still think that I am of any significance in this world to celebrate for. I really appreciate this. Really really do.

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Got this from Mr Brown blog. I think all the S'pore Idols can move aside.. If only gals singing these songs when I am at ktv pubs sound like her, I would not be rushing for the restroom everytime. Enjoy..



Url here..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xeBB-KLUkEo



Url here.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kt2bUloObOk



I love the 1 million song.. Haha.. Freaking funny lyrics..

Url here.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4-f1JXvqoUE

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I thought it was supposed to end ages ago. Back when I was in Sec sch, I thought I had seen it all. I believed that all human beings will evolved to be a smarter being. Knowing that violence will bring nothing. But after viewing a video from Kenny Sia's blog, it seems to be that violence is still rampant among our youths today. Youths who we might called our Ah Lians and Ah Bengs. I had seens a previous video which was made in S'pore and that had made me sick.

Sometime I wonder just what is going through their head as they are doing all this? Fame? Or an avenue for them to release their frustrations? If it is the latter, who is giving them all these stress? Parents or peers? I think that in this age where money making seems to be the top pirority for everyone, we should take a look at our young ones. Be it our younger siblings or relatives. Talk to them about their problem and used these video as a lesson to them. What will all these mindless violence bring?

For the sake of our future, I hope our youth don't resort to primitive methods to resolve their indifferences. We are not living in the Stone Age now. Where the only way to resolve things is to use a club on one another. I hope that someone will show up in their life to guide them along. I pray for their souls. For they will have to grow up to be responsible adults. Not mindless cave men.

Download the video clip right here

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以前我看到朋友哭
我很羡慕
可是我怎么逗我自己
怎么逗我自己
我的眼泪都流不出
总觉得能够哭的朋友都很幸福
能够把满腔的无奈满腔的痛苦让泪水带走

最后是泪水啃在心头流不出
就像要爱却不懂怎么去爱
自己哭过后才明白
流过泪的眼睛将生命看得更清楚

只有真正懂得付出的人才懂得何为哭为何哭
再坚强的心偶尔也会脆弱
心会痛
心也会感动
只有曾经真心付出的人才懂得何为哭为何哭
泪水要记得为真心保留
眼泪别白白地流

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Tired.. Damn tired.. The reason is as stated as above. Anyway, got a clip to share with you guys. Just saw it on you tube. As I had stated, the reason why Brazil lost is because of the superb individual play of Zinedine Zidane. He will always be a legend. The things he does with a ball are stuff that guys like me can only dream of. Enjoy...



Anyway, kinda realize my blog doesn't really allow the viewing of the full video. This is the url. It is a compliation of all the wonderful tricks shown by Zidane in the match against Brazil. Doing the roulette on a Brazilian player. Priceless..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XlZaIdrK_b4

Another video to recommend. Fix You by Coldplay. One of my fav tracks from their latest album.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1gpiXkTUNu4

And to think I will be missing their concert. :(

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Wanted to share some thoughts I had after coming back from my In Camp. It's amazing how the human mind mature as we age. The things that we want also became different as time passes by. I still remembering sharing with some of my friends back in 2003 before we ORD what kind of jobs we wanted after 2 plus years in the army. We shared our dreams and aspirations. Some of them were crazy (such as dating as much gals as possible to make up for the 2 years of hell) to serious dreams (Studying part time and to get our first car when we are 26 or 27). The topic of our conversation had differ as time pass us by.

My first in Camp in 2004 was spent complaining about how hard it is to eke out a living. Starting with no work experience and money, life was always a struggle for all of us. The main topic was concentrated on how low our pay is (ranging from 1k to 1.4K) and how we hated our boss. We also chatted a lot on things that make no difference to our everyday life. Another way of describing it was talking Cock.

Now in 2006, the main topic we were talking about is marriage, how to apply for a home loan and how to invest our income so as to provide for our families and retirement. Topics that we are chatting now had become much more serious. No more jokes about those stupid things that we had done outside.

It suddenly dwell on me that I am aging. It is a fact. I am not the 21 year old boy back in 2001. Life now doesn't revolve around passing my exams and spending time with my gf. Life had become much more serious now. Whether I liked it or not. Growing up is something that I can't ignore anymore.

I tried to recall what kind of dreams I had back in 2003 and realize that one of it was having a decent income when I am 26 to 28. No way am I close to it now. I also dreamt that my mum can retire when I am 28 and spent her time with her friends and maybe, shopping with my future gf. No way am I close to that. Another of my dream was to have my own family when I am 30. Nope. Not close to this either. All these are giving me cold sweat. Are all my dreams going to be just dreams?

No way am I going to let all these be just pipe dreams. I am determinded to make them come true. Hard it might be but I will tried my best to work things out. It is time to be SERIOUS. Mr Sim Seng Yong Christopher. No more immature tantrums from you and more effort and time to your work. Be glad that you have a good learning opportunity now in your job. Be glad that you had friends who are always willing to stand up to your immature behaviour and nonsensical actions. Be glad that you had a mum(who is my best friend, counsellor and chatting mate) who had worked hard for the past 26 years taking care of you. Be glad God had given your a mind that can think well if only you want it to.

Yes. You might have a pretty screwed up family. A Dad who you don't know whether you should love or hate. A Grandpa you are still missing heavily now. For you felt sorry that you never let him have a taste of the good life you had always wanted for him. No one special in your life now to share the ups and downs with you but hey, Life is never fair. Life is always a challenge. I am sure the challenge is always to make us better. Not to make us worse off it. I am willing to face up to this challenge. As I said, it is time to GROW UP.

One of the songs that I am currently into.

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World Cup Fever is here. We are finally at the Semi Finals and what a great tourament it had been. I was sad with the demise of Netherlands but I was glad that it was done by the Portugese. At least they play much more attractive football than England. Let's just say that I didn't shed a single tear when they went out on penalties. I was just pissed that it took so long. The EPL is an exciting league but England always have a tendency to choose the wrong coach. I think the best they had in the past 2 decades were Sir Bobby Robson and Terry Venables. Sven was crap and this current team played like rubbish. Enough said.

I am surprised by the performance of France and to a lesser degree, Germany. France had defy critics so far with an old team but seems like red wine, they get better when they age. Zidane was simply breathtaking in the match against Brazil. Brazil went out on a whimper which is kinda sad when you look back on the talents that they had. Argentina was also a team that was damn unlucky to be knocked out. They were simply screwed by their own manager when it matter the most. Got a feeling that Germany or Italy might go all the way. Anyway, all four teams stand an equal chance. I will be rooting for Portugal. They play attacking football and another reason is I betted on them to win the World Cup when the odds were on $20. ;)

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The tears come streaming down your face when you lose something you can't replace. When you love some one but it goes to waste, could it be worse? Lights will guide you home And ignite your bones And I will try to fix you

Grace

Kenneth

Joy

Padi

Keith

Blinky Mummy

Kenny

Mr Brown

Zhi Hao

Benson

Stanley Yeo

Jodie

Turtle Power!!

Felicia Chin

Yu Hui

Elvina

Priscilia

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