Sunday, April 20, 2008
This post goes out to a long time buddy of mine. I am already feeling a bit bad now for being a bit harsh on him just now but I think it's about time for him to get his feet up again.
What he is going through now is similar to what I had been through. There is someone that you desperately want by your side but the sad truth is this is not what the other party have in mind. A lot of things in this world can be planned. Like how you spend your money, how you spend your precious time with your loved ones and how you want to live your life. Love is sadly not one of the above.
You might think that the guy in her life is like shit. No way comparable to you. But then again, who are we to judge? Love is and should always be a two way communication highway. If it is always you who are trying to make things work, this can't be considered love.
To be honest, I am struggling to find a term for it. It is simply infatuation. Longing for something that you will never get is a pet peeve for human beings. Especially for guys. I got to admit it but it seems like things that we can't lay our hands on are things that get us all work up over. Is it really love that is driving you on or simply a need to justify all those time and effort spent?
Love should never and could never be measure by the amount of time and effort spend on someone. To be honest, I am bad on this topic too but love to me is something that will make you feel like you are no longer alone in this world. Yes. Love should be something that complete you. Make you feel wanted and give you the extra courage to face the difficulties ahead in life.
Now I hope that my friend here will just magically wake up one day and be back to his normal self but I know this won't happen. Love is a double edged sword. If you are holding on to the grip of the sword, you are good to face the whole world. But if it is the blade that you are holding on to, the pain it give out is much more than any pain that you can find out there. The only solution is to let go of it.
No one can make you do that expect you. Yes. You are your own antidote and poison. Letting go will not heal you immediately but with the best medicine out there that is called Time, you will be fine soon. I am sure of this. I am not the best adviser in love out there but I am very sure that time will heal all wounds and pain.
也许时间是一种解药
也是我现在正服下的毒药
Labels: Love
You can take a picture of something you see. In the future where will I be?
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